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Reading and writing have been my twin passions for a long time. Actually the reading came first - started when I was about 5 - and continues to this day. The writing part took some time. I've started up and discarded plenty of blogs and this is the one that stuck with me. I started writing in 2009 and haven't looked back since. 

What will you find on this blog?
I'm opinionated, so this blog has plenty of opinions. I love reading and telling stories so you'll find those too. Religion (and religious people) make me go WTF?! I love technology (who doesn't eh?) in general and software/games in particular. I write about anything that fascinates me, that I find funny or quirky or amusing. I'm one of those people who love poking things with a stick just to see what happens, so those who are easily offended be warned! Random ramblings, insane mumblings,  quirky musings and incoherent stories await you. 


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Why Don’t We Raise Our Sons like We Do Our Daughters?

This post originally appeard in Women's Web: Why Don’t We Raise Our Sons like We Do Our Daughters?

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One refrain that caught my eye throughout these debates – both online and off – is the fact that the reaction of the majority of Indians is the same: girls should stay at home, not go out after dark, dress appropriately and so on if they want to stay safe. No one seems to bat an eyelid when laying down these precautions for women. Except that the reality is women would be far safer if all the men simply DID NOT RAPE or HARASS any person that looks remotely female. No one has to stay at home and become a hermit! That got me thinking further. F…